Contents

    1. Introduction from Clair

    2. PRINT: Dig In & "But" Out Sample Language Worksheet

    3. What It Means to Dig In & "But" Out

    1. Inviting Conversation Introduction

    2. Tip 1: Show (Genuine) Interest

    3. Tip 2: Acknowledge the Awkwardness

    4. Tip 3: Clearly Communicate Openness

    5. Sample Language for Inviting Conversation

    1. Listening Intently Introduction

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    2. Tip 1: Give Undivided Attention

    3. Tip 2: Notice Nonverbal Cues and Omissions

    4. Tip 3: Listen to Truly Learn

    5. Sample Responses that Communicate You Are Listening

    1. Speaking Empathetically Introduction

    2. Tip 1: Reflect Back What You Heard

    3. Tip 2: Confirm Your Understanding

    4. Tip 3: Pursue Full Understanding

    5. Sample Responses for Communicating Empathetically

    1. Leaving the "But..." Out Introduction

    2. Tip 1: Stop at the Comma

    3. Tip 2: Avoid Challenging, Fixing, Rushing, or Problem Solving

    4. Tip 3: Sit with Them in Their Experience

    5. Sample Responses that Don't Include "but..."

    1. Remember the Big Picture and Overall Goal

    2. Next Steps

What to Expect

  • $25.00
  • Practical Tips
  • 30 minutes
  • Printable Sentence Prompts

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